I am 21, he’s 29. I started seeing him a month and a half ago. He has an “ex” (who’s 44) who is a recovering heroin addict and will probably be going to the methadone clinic for the rest of her life. Problem is, he went home to her 2nite and every nite when I first started seeing him. He swears he does not love her, but he left me today ( he was staying with me for the past 2 weeks) after calling me names nad being extremely verbally abusive. I dropped him off, he called me and all I heard was her in the background. I talked to her once before and she said he had been beating her for the past ten yrs. I am starting to believe this because for the past week he has been perpetually and viciously jealous of EVERYONE I talk to: my doctor is my boyfriend my friends, etc etc, Therefore I am called a whore from those allegations but he went back to his ex tonight. Not to mention I found a text on his phone from her a week ago to him saying he was using me and “not to fuck her over”
he denied he was using me
he said he just told her that to shut her up.
I don’t know what to do. It seems obvious to everyone else, but i am 21 years old alone and i have no family and just one fatal weakness: I am scared to death to be alone.

methadone withdrawl